Dating can be tiring and confusing. You think you meet a great guy and he does something to throw you for a loop. He may have been insensitive, unthankful, or rude.
But let me back you up a bit. Who has the power to make you act low class?
As good as it would feel to give a man a piece of your mind if you feel you've been done wrong, you cannot make a man think that you are upset because you felt short changed by him.
There is a way to communicate how you feel that has nothing to do with throwing tantrums, getting bitter or resentful, manipulating or giving him the tenth degree.
You take the high road. When you take the high road, you'll leave him with his own guilty conscience. You won't come across as judgmental or rude but strong and centered.
For example, if he didn't call back when he said he would, forget about calling him. Don't pick up that phone or you'll contaminate your fingers. You may end up getting a toxic hand disease which will spread into your personality and make you appear weak and needy.
So put the phone down and pick up a new hobby. Replace the desire to give in with another one. This sort of attitude will take you far and cause you to be way more successful in your relationships because you are exuding attributes that quality men value in women. The ability to be a real class act will cause men to beg for more.
Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry.
http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com
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